Bedroom eyes are defined as half-shut or heavy-lidded eyes that are dreamy and reminiscent of haziness. This look is often shared during intimate moments. These are also used when you want to look at another with sexual longing. For women, this look can easily be achieved with a little makeup. Men, however, need to work a little harder so as not to appear sketchy.
Do Bedroom Eyes Impose?
Have you ever had someone in your inbox who seemingly chats with themselves? You never respond, and they never stop texting. These people are often creepy. They can be such a turn off. There is nothing worse than unsolicited chat-ups. When you are imposing yourself on a stranger, you are invading their personal space and putting them under pressure to be kind to you even if they do not want to talk to you.
It is worse when this person is right in front of you, and they will not go away. At least on social media platforms, you can block them. To avoid all this embarrassment, think about learning how to seduce with only eye contact.
Each time you seduce or are being seduced, reading and communication with the eyes is often a significant part of the process. This technique works but unfortunately has not gotten enough coverage.
It Starts an Instant Communication
Do you know those intense, exciting, and flowing conversations that start between strangers who have a connection? Those always start from eye contact. These conversations turn out to be a magical storm of words and stories, some of which have led to the strongest relationships.
But, they all started with body language. A glance that provoked a suppressed smile and somehow the mutual interest fired up. If you learn how to communicate with your eyes, you will never sit alone at the bar. If you are a frequent traveler, you will always have someone to talk to during long flights.
Your Eyes Are Much Better Than Any One-Liners
When you are trying to pick up a girl or a guy at the bar, your one-liners may work for some but turn off others. However, with your eyes, you will not have to spend as much energy just to get rejected.
All you need is to meet someone’s gaze and hold it for a few seconds, smile and look away. When done right, there will be an intimacy so deep, and they will not know what hit them.
Make Two Glances
One glance will get their attention but what will truly draw them to you is if you can get a double take. With a deliberate and teasing second glance, you are telling the person that you like them. It is also sexier than the first glance. Everyone has done it. Make eye contact, look away, wait a few seconds, then look again, and smile. If the other person holds their gaze and smiles, you are off to a great start.
Your eyebrows are also part of the game
There is an eyebrow flash when you meet an attractive person you are interested in. While this flash is often quick, it is also noticeable. It also sends a strong signal of interest and is, therefore, a great addition to your body language. You can practice in front of a mirror, or with friends so that it is natural and leaves a person interested in you.
Sync Your Blinks
Did you know that you blink much more when you meet someone you like? If the other person also likes you, they will also start blinking fast. Soon, it will seem like a blinking fest. But you have to synchronize your blink and ensure you are doing it in a sexy way. You do not want to seem like you are fighting tears.
Hold Their Gaze during Conversations
Now that you have established that there may be something, it is time to make your move and start a conversation with them. During this conversation, make sure you hold their gaze when they speak. This suggests that you respect and fancy them. Do not overdo the eye contact but make it enough, so it is clear you like them.
Bedroom eyes are all about how you integrate your eye contact with the rest of your body language. Ensure you smile with your eyes to make them feel comfortable and wanted. Smiling makes you more approachable and easy to talk to, so make sure you smile as you converse with them. Remember that you will not know how to achieve this at first, but with practice, you will get better.